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    What makes a man "Good"?


    2. You know how when you are around religious people and they are marriage oriented
    3. and so you feel safe with them around your daughters or sisters or current or future wife? 

    5. That is what a good man is. No premarital intimacy 
    6. and respect each others current and future spouses and families. 

    8. They do not seduce a woman or take her body without first giving marriage commitment

    10. A good man also recognizes the value of being a masculine leader husband so that he can honor the feminine and protect and provide for a woman willing to follow him and a woman who also honors the sacred feminine and once a man who will enable her to be a feminine follower woman. 

    12. This is not to say that women cannot be masculine and should not be able to switch to masculine actions if their husband is injured or the economy is bad and they need money. We are talking about IDEALS here

    14. People describe me as an incel insecure and misogynistic for presenting these perspectives but are not willing to have a real conversation.
    15. I do not want to be men or women who are promiscuous. I consider that simping and whoring- giving your body and energy and money and soul to people you do not care about and are not committed to. 
    16.  I think these simple insults prove that they are unwilling to debate me formally because they are ashamed of their predatory behavior and know that they are wrong and do not even want to get married and so even though they don't say and admit that they do not want marriage at a subconscious level they find ways to try to discredit me. 

    10 Steps to Efficiently Find Your Wife

    Step 1

    1. self love is about knowing your path as a man. 
    2. define love: love is a commitment to live a life with someone with a mutual interest in certain values and interests. 
    3. list of musts & must nots in a spouse
    4.  make a list of your values and interests
      Follow these values and make plans and goals around them
      This action will keep you in the frequency of self love.
      Love yourself before others, and the definition of love is a commitment to shared values.
      You can't really love a persons body or money. You can love their values, and that will get you through sickness and poverty. To prove your love is real. your love of both yourself and your future wife. 

    6. Begin a daily email thread with your Future Wife. 
    7. - Mention what/how you are working in order to save money for you
    8. - Ask "what would she want you to do "
    9. - She is a good reason for living

    11. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 2:

    1.  
    2. STEP 2
      buy a wedding band & wear it 
    3. This shows you are committed to your values and future wife.
      And set your public identity and status to preparing for marriage
    4. Tell people you are not "single" 
    5. - "I'm committed to my Values & My Future Wife
    6. you are building up for your wife 
    7. - be careful of people who do not talk about marriage and are ambiguous about their  current marital status. 

    9. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 3:

    1.  STEP 3:  avoiding PMI
      The original not watered down Orthodox religion emphasize no PMI
       
    2. be thinking of ways to minimize PMI
      You might be asking what this has to do with you and your marriage. It is about creating a culture that promotes marriage
      You want a person with no attachments or memories or comparisons to other previous intimate partners, right?
    3. Gender conscious environments
      No physical contact
      No eating together
      Everyone lies about it but everyone knows what a guy is doing when he is talking and interacting with a woman
      It's generally a sexual interest
      Remove dishonest words like "seeing each other" in a relationship- instead say unmarried sexual
      Sleeping
      Significant other bf gf

    5. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 4:

    1.  discuss what is ideal 
    2. find ways to promote virginity pure culture
      when people try to seduce each others future spouses 
    3. and other peoples loved ones.
    4. This is the reason no trust in society
      Focus on ideals 

    6. Women say it's a double standard and that they should be allowed to be the initiators for sexual activity and that woman should be allowed to be masculine and that this is a way of expressing their freedom 

    8. I think both men and women should avoid premarital intimacy and be virgins because if all the women are virgins and the men have to be virgins as well mathematically speaking and even the quote unquote alpha males they if they want a virgin as well then they will have to be virgins 

    10. The whole idea that seducing women is success and that virginity is bad is predatory and unclean 

    12. Even if you are not a virgin like me my advice is to spend two to three years of celibacy and self intimacy and this will allow you to detach from previous intimate partners and recollect yourself and revirginize

    14. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 5:

    1. Orient yourself around Woman's Flower, Vulva 
    2. Rather than being penocentric (making primary focus on man's genitals and him getting off)
    3.  or instead of focusing on women's  breasts 
    4. or overempahsis on technology, cars pets and luxury experiences  
    5. your wife and her Flower should be your primary source of peace. 
    6. Vulva Flower Herself has such gravity that 
    7. life's challenges can be tolerated. 
    8. The mere existence of Her. 


    11. The best way to see a woman (the feminine) is as having no soul in the men gives her his soul and life force and attention. Women (the feminine) are designed to use men's Soul energy for good (or evil.) 

    13. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 6:

    1.  want everyone to have a loving spouse 
    2. you might think it's good to applaud promiscous men that that is "success" with women but it is in fact   being polyamorous and neglecting your future spouse 
    3. may think that it's more strong to seek PMI
      But actually more strong to commit to someone 

    5. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 7:

    1. initiate debates with fellow man or if you are a woman, with your fellow woman. 
    2. women- would you like a husband who you would want to look up to and follow? 
    3. women- would you prefer to be a feminine woman 
    4. men would you prefer to be a masculine leader man? 
    5.  Men would you prefer to have a virgin woman 
    6. Or have other men had intimacy with her. 

    8. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 8:

    1. identifying predatory people :
    2. anyone who is not your future wife is your "non-wife" so do not allow them to seduce you 
    3. do not be a simp. 
    4. Men Should recognize that a woman is like a intergalactic black hole attractive amazing but will magnetize any of your spare time and money all guys know that they will give all their spare time and money to a woman so it's best to save it up for your wife rather than waste it on someone who you are not sure about (simping)

    6. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 

    STEP 9:

    1. Assess a woman : 
    2. When you observe a woman you should ask yourself if she seems physically attractive culturally attractive mentally attractive whether you want to meet with her and like her genetics for your children and whether she seems like she wants to be your number one fan and supporter helpmate cheerleader and would admire and look up to you
    3. is she visually appealing to you
    4. could you see yourself wanting to provide her oral sex? 

    6. REVIEW the TIKTOK CHANNEL at the top of this website and the E-BOOK below for more. 


    STEP 10:



    1. look at a woman, visually, with eye contact 
    2. if she shows receptive body language, 
    3. approach her ask if she is looking for a husband 
    4. if she says yes, offer her your name or business card 
    5. tell her to look up your social media or website, where you describe yourself and your qualities and expectations of your future wife. 
    6. it's not that she shouldnt have preferences as well, she should, 
    7. but it's about letting her choose if she likes you and 
    8. tell her if she does to message or email you 

    10. tell her to tell her parents or close loved ones that you are interested in her 

    12. finallly, DO NOT "DATE" talk or see each other in person. 

    14. you can email discuss everything, and on the phone or webcam. talk about personal and intimate matters. 

    16. the prsotitute paradox is that people seduce people they do not care about 

    18. so if you FIRST establish that you are like brother and sister, spiritually, having the same values, 
    19. this establishes trust that you will be honest about details of your life, sexual matters, financial matters... 

    21. remember it's never about " I want x kind of woman " it's my wife WILL have xy&z qualities and want to follow me and my value system 

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    CANCEL DATING E-BOOK !!

    CHAPTER ONE: WHORES & SIMPS !!

    1.   
    2. CH. 1 WHORES & SIMPS !!
    3. I used to be a whore , and many of you currently are – exchanging body for money and body , 
    4. I use the term whores to highlight giving your body up, 
    5. And the term simps to represent giving your passion soul energy and money to someone who is not committed to you 
    6. Why do a prostitute and their client have that transactional exchange? 
    7. Because don’t respect each other 
    8. It’s a Paradox because people who do not respect each other want to seduce each other for PMI Premarital intimacy 
    9. Conventionally, a simp is a guy who gives money to a woman who does not reciprocate any value. 
    10. But I would like to broaden the definition of simp to include any man who is intimate with a woman who is not his follower feminine wife supporter cheerleader. 
    11. So even men who are supposedly successful with women who get women, “player” men, ladies men- all these I consider Simps. 
    12. My logic is that to trick and seduce a woman to give you her body without your commitment, 
    13. It requires 
    14. Before continuing, I would like to say that men’s dark psychology is more overt and obvious like men trying to seduce women, 
    15. But within this book I focus mainly on women’s dark psychology because it is more complex and we are only now realizing how dark women can be. 
    16. I may say things like women are irrational but the truth is that all the shit tests and mate monkey branching and unwilling to pursue truth or commit and instead seek comfort is what women do and is actually the most coldly rational biological strategies. Things like not listening to her father and then giving her body to bad men with good genetics and getting pregnant and expecting the govt (other men) to pay for it. And women encouraging each other (even mother encouraging their daughters) to be whores… this is all coldly rational strategies women use to fight each other and compete for mates and not care about anyone else. 
    17. Part of the problem is that many men want to be these predatory players- which is why this archetype has been encouraged in current society. 
    18. The terms are interchangeable to both genders- men giving away their bodies are whores and women giving away their dedication and money and creative energy to a man who does not want to commit 
    19. Quasi alpha male 
    20. Fboy 
    21. 1. (fboy give ) Simps (fboy quasi alpha male )
    22. A whore is a term I use to describe women who give their body to a man without first getting his life commitment, whether legal and or public). 
    23. I also think men can be whores but 
    24. I’ll convince you you would not want multiple women 
    25. Because that is saying that one woman is not attractive enough 
    26. To those who consciously want to be Whores & Simps, and perhaps say when they are older that they will want a spouse, 
    27. I say to you that it impossible to know what you will want. So that’s a cover story to lie and seem moral, but who you are is a person that is not interested in marriage, not preparing to be spouse, and not respectful of marriage culture- as in not realizing that other people will have future spouses and that you are confusing the process, and your culture is encouraging your future spouse to not be a virgin , and become involved and attached with other people… 
    28. I say contact me when you are ready for self love and true love, and to be in the vibration of love in your own life. Because you are not there now, even though you might not be willing to admit it. 
    29. I would say that the more masculine energy simps and the feminine energy whores 
    30. So since women are encouraged to achieve masculine forms of success and that they are masculine, I would say they share whores ( the more attractive fuck boy men) 
    31. So that way, these women make their own money and don’t have to be feminine and don’t have to submit to a husband. 
    32. But it is no different than a man hiring prostitutes.
    33. It is having sex with a person that is more attractive than you who would not commit to you and making you not want to settle with a more realistic match for you. 
    34. Part of this for women has to do with some women wanting more stimulation from a man with larger privates. 
    35. And women act proud and say they want a man with a big d, as if they are bragging, but it is not smart to 
    36. But what they should want is a husband who will commit to them, and include men’s private size as a factor, 
    37. But the thing is that women can get more addicted to stimulation so women should treat themselves as addicts already. 
    38. What women will respond is no one should tell them what to do, and that they can do whatever they want, but look at where that attitude has created- a society of broken families and women unscrupulously relying on other people’s money via govt assistance 
    39. Each person can only have one spouse so why create comparisons in society by people having mixed experiences 
    40. The point is I would not want to be these people. Not a promiscuous “successful” man or woman. 
    41. Men say that as long as the woman gives consent and that she wanted it that the act was acceptable. 
    42. But what does acceptable even mean? Maybe legal, but is it good loving moral or respectful towards each other and the individuals’ future spouses? No. 
    43. So what happens is a smaller percent of men share all the women and the women date and break up with these men. It is polygamy and it’s really a smaller group of men sharing and cycling a large group of women. 
    44. But the core issue is that even these men are not happy because it is impossible to be happy if you are seducing women and in the spirit of lust 
    45. Lust is designed to keep people attached and should only happen in the bedroom 
    46. Simply: only one woman per man 
    47. Men make fun of men for being virgin or not getting any women, but even the guys who get lots of women, they are sharing women with other men so that is queer of them to want a woman who was with other men. And even they do not get a virgin wife… 
    48. And this whole situation is making no
    49. And women will rarely say that they played a part in this and are also responsible because women usually are vulnerable and cannot say they were promiscuous otherwise men will not want to marry them. 
    50. And that is what a simp is, it’s a man who is comfortable with marrying a woman who has been with other men and would not prefer a virgin woman. 
    51. Using intimate pleasure to distact yourself from the fact that you do not know what you want in life 
    52. And that you are not compatible enough wth your whole lives to match up each others lives and family and friends 
    53. And you don’t even know if you want to be a masculine leader husband? 
    54. Women are queer in that they talk about sex and details with their other women 
    55. But enough with the constantly thinking about people’s bodies and intimacy- 
    56. Because when you are thinking about all that stuff, it makes it difficult to enjoy the other aspects of life 
    57. Women will say that they want sex with a man 
    58. And men will say that the woman said it was ok to take her body without his commitment- 
    59. But what does “ ok” mean? It is neither Sustainable nor loving. 
    60. So men: save any spare time money and passion you have and build up that reserve and only give it to a woman who commits to your- your wife- because giving it to random women will make you a simp 
    61. So women: 
    62. Live for your husband – and keep your body pure healthy and strong, even if that means having to “revirginize” and heal. Only give your body to a man who is willing to give you his life commitment and masculine creative soul energy and other resources. 
    63. If you are a virgin or at least the less partners you have had will make you more attractive to a husband that you would gladly willingly play a supportive feminine role for. 
    64. And masturbate- use it don’t lose it stay virile, and also, self intimacy will help you maintain post nut mental clarity 
    65. So one concern would be to ask why do women give their bodies to predatory men: 
    66. The reason is because maybe women are addicted to sex, especially with men who have larger genitals since that is more stimulation,  maybe women have low self esteem so they don’t think their body is attractive important or valuable, 
    67. And the main reason, I would say, more than anything else, 
    68. Is because women are submissive and do not have foresight to see what will happen to them in the future if they do not prepare to be a wife and live for their husband 
    69. Another reason is that people, especially women are affected by social programming, that success is only in masculine terms of making money, and not in feminine terms of insipiring your husband by being his cheerleader and assistant, or raising kids…
    70. And so if their parents don’t encourage them to prepare to be a wife, and they send the daughter to college to be masculine, 
    71. So the opposite of Whore & Simp culture is Virginity Culture 
    72. find ways to promote virginity pure culture
      when people try to seduce each others future spouses 
    73. and other peoples loved ones.
    74. This is the reason no trust in society
      Focus on ideals 
    75.  
       
    76. Women say it's a double standard and that they should be allowed to be the initiators for sexual activity and that woman should be allowed to be masculine and that this is a way of expressing their freedom 
    77.  
       
    78. I think both men and women should avoid premarital intimacy and be virgins because if all the women are virgins and the men have to be virgins as well mathematically speaking and even the quote unquote alpha males they if they want a virgin as well then they will have to be virgins 
    79.  
       
    80. The whole idea that seducing women is success and that virginity is bad is predatory and unclean 
    81.  
       
    82. Even if you are not a virgin like me my advice is to spend two to three years of celibacy and self intimacy and this will allow you to detach from previous intimate partners and recollect yourself and revirginize
    83. Men who seduce lots of women end up becoming feminine because to seduce women they need to be flirty emotional and romantic and use their body like an object, which is feminine. 
    84. 7. To be a player you have to be a manipulator and not be in the frequency of love- so it is impossible to be happy
    85. 8. Guys might say that hey women choose him so that means it's a good thing . as if consent is more important than morals, respect or love. 45
    86. 9.  
    87. 10. But women do not choose rationally and they give their body to men who don't commit and what if they get attached to amen because of his charisma bedroom performance or lifestyle 
    88. 11.  
    89. 12. It's not rational to get attached to someone who is unwilling to commit to you 
    90. If players or anyone getting PMI were asked if they felt badly for taking others’ daughters and wives, they would say that women are free to do whatever they want. 
    91. 19. Following that logic, can men do whatever they want too? Can everyone do drugs? 
    92. 20.  Women are not able to seek Honorable Men because women are really vulnerable so it's not that they are bad but it said they are so vulnerable that all they can do is find ways to survive and cope with existence. One way they cope with existence is by having PMI, so the pleasure distracts them from their failure as a human being to be good and loving.  but this is bad and women may seem innocent but they can be similarly bad as men. 
    93. The problem with women (or at least the feminine estrogen energy) is that that does not think far in advance, so women don’t recognize that they will compare more attractive fuck boy whore performance and genetics to their future husband 
    94. That is why polyamory does not work either because there will always be comparisons and people will always have favortes 
    95. Women are damaging society by taking birth control that doesn’t get fully absorbed and goes into the recycled tap water that gets consumed by men
    96. Men need to avoid soy products and other sources of estrogen in both tap and bottled water and avoid fluoride and many more factors which damage your masculinity and virility.
    97. Think about it; a man would never take birth control to affect his masculinity, and women taking it proves women are less rational because women do wild things like 
    98. The point is that women should work on getting around men who allow them to be in their feminine 
    99. And men should work on their testosterone and build momentum by working on their career and mental and physical strength and that will allow them to feel masculine and have the soul energy to give to a woman. 
    100. Father give away
    101. 158.  
    102. 159. Quasi alpha dominates loveless, potentially makes her addicted to large privates stimulation (women brag about this addiction but addiction and attachment to a man unwilling to commit is bad) 
    103. 160.  
    104. 161. Then simp wants equal authority in relationship, doesn't want to lead 
    105. 162.  
    106. 163. And court system gives women power, more benefits and time with children and govt assistance so incentives to leave the marriage
    107. 164.  
    108. 165. And men in society do not criminalize predatory manipulative men's behavior, 
    109. 166.  
    110. 167. So these quasi alpha predators trick women
    111. 168.  
    112. 169. Men could come together and make laws against this
    113. 170.  
    114. 171. And gender separate schools to reduce premarital intimacy and it's easier to protect their daughters from predators who want women's body but do not want to commit
    115. 172.  
    116. 173. We could make this happen if we wanted to 
    117. 174.  
    118. 175. Maybe have male and female students attend class every other day 
    119. 176.  
    120. 177. And when they are not at school they help with chores and learn on their own or have more field trips
    121. 178.  
    122. 179. When it's a big group of men it's a fun synergy but when you add women The Men start to compete in the energy gets darker 
    123. 180.  
    124. 181. At least when people are younger 
    125. 182.  
    126. 183. When people are older like 18 and up then I think people are more mature and can be in mixed gender environments
    127. 184. Men who seduce women are feminine. 
    128. 185. But then you might ask if they get lots of women isn’t that masculine? 
    129. 186. No. the way they trick women is by acting feminine and emotional – like a woman. 
    130. 187.  The only reason that men worry about private size is because they are going to be comparing it to other men's because of premarital intimacy but if you remove premarital intimacy then 
    131. 188.  
    132. 189. Men won't have to worry anymore and even their wife needs large toys to stimulate her large privates 
    133. 190.  
    134. 191. It's not a major issue because she and he chose each other already and are not comparing themselves to others not their privates nor their bodies
    135. 192. If she is attracted to me and I'm attracted to her that's all I need to know 
    136. 193.  
    137. 194. that's how most men think
    138. 195.  
    139. 196. But because a woman wants to do something is not a good reason if a woman gives consent 
    140. 197.  
    141. 198. Because women don't think rationally when it comes to intimacy 
    142. 199.  
    143. 200. They are only thinking about adapting surviving and using their body to appeal to the men who can provide her a sense of safety and security 
    144. 201.  
    145. 202.  not even real safety and security
    146. 203. The problem is if you remove the pleasure Factor then there's no motivation and need to convince people that pleasure seeking is not good and not a basis for a loving marriage where you want to be together even if you have health or wealth challenges.
    147. 204. Ask men do you think pleasure seeking is loving? Is it a good idea? 
    148. 205.  Paradox
    149. 206. These Instagram perfect promiscuous people seem like they are winning
    150. 207. But they are not having family or kids
    151. 208. So evolutionarily, they are gone
    152. 209. I don't want to be thinking about my own body – that’s one downside to possessing larger privates 
    153. 210.  
    154. 211. Men Will feel burdened by thinking about their own body too much because it is more masculine to be thinking about your work and your wife's body 
    155. 212.  
    156. 213. Say to man: we both agree Vagina number one
    157. 214.  
    158. 215. You may not like me but you can trust me around your daughters and future wife
    159. 216.  Need to explain why wanting a harem is not ideal. Because it neglects your wife 
    160. 217.  The problem with encouraging women to be masculine is that it will make them want to balance out the polarity by finding a more feminine man the problem with that is a feminine man has lost his instincts and is not excited about protecting and providing for a woman 
    161. 218. In fact he is a predator and takes the woman's body without giving her life commitment 
    162. 219. And life commitment is the only meaningful and most powerful commitment in the circumstances of mating attachment
    163. 220.  if you are not treating compatibility like a science and apply logic not emotion 
    164. 221.  
    165. 222. Then it's not important to you
    166. 223.  
    167. 224. And you prefer emotions 
    168. 225. Would not want to be those men
    169. 226.  
    170. 227.  would not want to be with those women 
    171. 228.  
    172. 229. Women think that since PREDATORY men are the only ones approaching them that that is women's only option
    173. 230. So here's the problem
    174. 231.  
    175. 232. Normally a respectable non simp man would not want a woman
    176. 233.  
    177. 234. Unless she also was willing to follow him and be his wife 
    178. 235.  
    179. 236. And she wanted to be a feminine follower woman
    180. 237.  
    181. 238. So he could be a man
    182. 239.  
    183. 240.  
    184. 241. But now predatory men are being allowed to take women and so the women get corrupted by them and do not want to be a wife but want to be promiscuous like the predatory men- 
    185. 242.  Reason why no man wants to marry you
    186. 243.  
    187. 244. Reason you are the one who is hinting at and asking your "bf" why he is not marrying you 
    188. 245.  
    189. 246. Not committing 
    190. 247.  
    191. 248. Does not love you or himself. Confused.
    192. 249.  Dont get woman 
    193. 250.  
    194. 251. Offer her and her male guardians your wife job description 
    195. 252.  
    196. 253. Very different person gf vs wife
    197. 254. A woman needs a father otherwise can't be a wife
    198. 255.  
    199. 256. Because women don't pick men
    200. 257.  
    201. 258. They follow men
    202. 259.  
    203. 260. And only a bad man would seduce a woman into following her
    204. 261.  
    205. 262. Without his commitment 
    206. 263.  
    207. 264. and approval of the father or other men in the woman's life
    208. 265.  
    209. 266. It's about the man respecting other men
    210. 267.  
    211. 268. Respecting the father of the woman
    212. 269. Respecting the brother of the woman
    213. 270.  
    214. 271.  
    215. 272. Is a person good is what they are doing right a better question is is what they are doing sustainable and that involves health wealth family and also global issues and
    216. 273. Perpetuation of the species and a stable society
    217. 274. So giving women power by giving them money and freedom to do what they want and choose whatever mate they want and whatever they want to give their body to and and both the government and fathers and society all giving women money to do whatever they want it's been an experiment and hopefully women will voluntarily choose and realize that it's still better to be feminine and not reject men being masculine not reject their fathers wanting to manage and protect them and not be rejecting their future husbands by giving their body to Men who do not want them you don't want to commit to them
    218. 275. Cancel dating is the best solution for world Peace because right now men cannot and should not trust each other because they are trying to seduce one another's daughters sisters and future wives and so no men should trust each other
    219. 276. If a woman is your gf, then you are stealing her. Because even if she marries you, you will not be marrying a pure woman, because you made her impure. 
    220. 277. Impure means unloving attachment energy 
    221. 278.  Wanting your wife to work outside of your home and work for other men and be around predatory men 
    222. 279.  
    223. 280. Is feminine of you 
    224. 281.  
    225. 282. In an ideal world if you are masculine then you would want your wife to be able to stay home
    226. 283.  Bad men seduce married women and say that she wanted it – but that shows that simply a woman wanting something is not a legitimate excuse. 
    227. 284.  Playboy player manipulators I would never want to be them because they get women and the word get means seduce or manipulate and also when you're around women and seducing them it often requires you to act emotional or act feminine or go along with their routine or what they want to do and women are irrational so you end up becoming feminine and that's what happens to these quote unquote Playboys and the most significant reason I do not want to be them is because they do not have a wife that they love and they become addicted to novelty in different women and aren't even capable of forming a loving healthy Bond and only loving one woman and if they think they're so alpha then they should be able to attract a woman that they actually want to be with
    228. 285. And so women think the men who approach them for dating quote unquote are good because no other men will approach them for marriage but the reason for that is because 
    229. 286.  
    230. 287. It's not because the other men are in cells but because the other men want a woman who wants to submit to a man and that starts with her submitting to her father which is not always possible because the father might be bad and might not be a guardian inmate send her to school to be seduced by men but if he's a good father and if it's a good society where women are treated as sacred then the men will want to commit
    231. 288. Plus you can trust me to look out for your daughter's not seduce them 
    232. 289.  
    233. 290. But most other men you can't trust if they had an opportunity it might take advantage of your women
    234. 291.  
    235. 292. And even if I'm in cell and your daughters were not attracted to me still at least I will protect them from other predatory men 
    236. 293.  
    237. 294. One major issue is women like to make it about me and say I can't give marriage advice because I'm not married yet or I might be in cell 
    238. 295.  
    239. 296. But I think women should start making it about themselves can they actually attract a man who is willing to commit to them 
    240. 297.  
    241. 298. The irony is that women think that the good men or the ones that do not want to marry them and be their masculine leader 
    242. 299.  
    243. 300. Women think that men who want to be their equal and their boyfriend are good people but really these men are taking the woman's body and not giving them commitment 
    244. 301.  
    245. 302. For people don't realize is unless something is a life commitment it's pretty much meaningless because what you're going to commit and may or may not cheat or may or may not break up it's leaves room for problems and heartbreak 
    246. 303.  
    247. 304. And the men who really don't mind doing this are pathological they aren't worried about getting attached to women because they cannot because they are pleasure seekers
    248. 305. Predators versus in cells
    249. 306.  
    250. 307. they are unwilling to do the research 
    251. 308. Quasi alpha male 
    252. 309. Use emotional arguments and influenced by women to be more emotional by making bullying comments 
    253. 310. But when somebody's a bully it means that they are angry inside 
    254. 311. Oh it's not good to be a bully 
    255. 312. They do not care about their fellow men because they are seducing men's daughters without first approaching the father or brothers of the daughter and asking them about marrying the woman
    256. 313.  
    257. 314. They do not respect other men because they are taking other men's future wives and perhaps they can offer the future wives more since they might be more attractive or can give more bedroom stimulation but it's disrespectful to men because then the woman have higher expectations in comparisons
    258. 315.  
    259. 316. And you might think that they are monogamous but they are serial monogamous at best which means they are still essentially polyamorous and taking all the women 
    260. 317.  
    261. 318. But even if I am in cell the reason that you should listen to me is because I do care about you in terms of wanting you to have a loving wife that you actually are really attracted to and would want to marry rather than seducing women you don't care about 
    262. 319.  
    263. 320. One major issue is the idea of consent 
    264. 321.  
    265. 322. that it doesn't matter whether something is loving or sacred or hygenic or prosocial or moral 
    266. 323.  
    267. 324. So the issue that a woman wanted intimacy and gave consent is not necessarily a good thing because women are easily manipulated so therefore they don't make good decisions 
    268. 325.  
    269. 326. And they can't protect themselves from mental or physical attacks

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    CHAPTER TWO: YAY FEMININITY!!

    1.   
    2. CH 2 : YAY FEMININITY !!
    3. The idea of a woman following a husband might seem unfair or mysoginistic, so here I am presenting the following logic: 
    4. Forget Women’s (& Men’s) freedom. We are existentially bound to each other. We are enslaved by this physical realm and to each other as humans. 
    5. For a marriage to last, there must be predetermined roles to create both fun polarity and stability of one person being the decider leader. 
    6. In order to celebrate & sustain femininity, there needs to be a strong benevolent masculine patriarchal foundation. 
    7. This may seem like objectifying women and treating them like property but think about it:
      we exist in the physical realm so we are all objects, 
    8. But the question is which is the most valuable? 
    9. Predatory men value their own gratification most and objectify women by using their bodies to get off without commiting to them. 
    10. Careless fathers pay for and tell their daughters to do give their bodies away
    11. Men who care about their daughters and wives create a culture of no PMI where men are not allowed premarital intimacy and women are protected so they don’t have to work in public but can work for the family or family business. That is the paradox- a wealthy woman does not have to handle money because she has men around her 
    12. Humans ought to create space for the sacred natural feminine by playing the role of masculine husband leader and feminine wife assistant. It is more courageous for a woman to be feminine when possible, even though it is necessary for women to be masculine in public for safety and to earn money 
    13. What makes a man "Good"?
    14.  
       
    15. You know how when you are around religious people (especially orthodox) and they are marriage oriented
    16. and so you feel safe with them around your daughters or sisters or current or future wife? 
    17.  
       
    18. That is what a good man is. No premarital intimacy 
    19. and respect each others current and future spouses and families. 
    20.  
       
    21. They do not seduce a woman or take her body without first giving marriage commitment
    22.  
       
    23. A good man also recognizes the value of being a masculine leader husband so that he can honor the feminine and protect and provide for a woman willing to follow him and a woman who also honors the sacred feminine and once a man who will enable her to be a feminine follower woman. 
    24.  
       
    25. This is not to say that women cannot be masculine and should not be able to switch to masculine actions if their husband is injured or the economy is bad and they need money. We are talking about IDEALS here
    26.  
       
    27. People describe me as an incel insecure and misogynistic for presenting these perspectives but are not willing to have a real conversation.
    28.  
       
    29. I think these simple insults prove that they are unwilling to debate me formally because they are ashamed of their predatory behavior and know that they are wrong and do not even want to get married and so even though they don't say and admit that they do not want marriage at a subconscious level they find ways to try to discredit me. 
    30. For society to get along, we have to have a politically correct thing to celebrate and for me, that is Woman’s Flower, and femininity. 
    31. Woman’s Flower, aka Vulva, are all similar and similarily attractive and so that is a good physical object to orient ourselves. 
    32. You might think that it is objectifying of women but 
    33. It’s different then 
    34. And any heteronormative guy or Lesbian gal can agree: Vulva is the height of existence! And everyone else can play a supporting role. 
    35. Stupid women in their Instagram tiktoks unwilling to show us nudity 
    36. Only allowed to have long hair dress sexy and show off body if married 
    37. Stop wrothiping mother 
    38. Stop worshiping random things 
    39. Wholesome adult ent 
    40. You might say that you are religious and worship jesus or or Mohamed or buddah , but think about it: things on earth are still not going well 
    41. And if there would be a solution, it would not be a magical solution or a genocide 
    42. The only real and sustainable solution is a new ideology 
    43. - This involves a new deity, new rituals and new sense of life and death. 
    44. 1. (what’s a better thing than pleasure or large sexual features or new technology or other objects? What does better mean? I would say what makes the world a more peaceful cooperative place) 
    45. Even if you still prefer your current religion, this can be compatible because think about it: 
    46. An all powerful god diety or universe would want you to celebrate each other and find a way to coexist as a species and to have a reason for living: to promote Femininity and celebrate Women! 
    47. I’d like to introduce you to my adversaries – red pill people highlighted by Myron gaines, Andrew tate, 
    48. People who claim to love women or that they are devote of a religion, but they are not orthodox 
    49. The best way to see the absolute feminine is as a stray dog teenager who does not realize they need help 
    50. They are coldly rational and adaptive in that they will go from man to man whoever the best option they can get is 
    51. The feminine is a flowy follower and does not like to think about truth and reality and does not use foresight or abstract thinking. 
    52. The feminine wants comfort and fun and attention and is not worried about building things or creating a sense of meaning. 
    53. There is a dark side to femininity- 
    54. Women encouraging each other to be promiscuous even if they are supposedly friends sisters daughters etc because they are all competing for male attention so they consciously or unconsciously cut each other down. 
    55. And they use complex sounding words like “sex-positive” and empowered independent woman to say that they should be able to do whatever they want without any consequences. 
    56. But what people do always has consequences. 
    57. misappropriated nurturing 
    58. - Giving care to 
    59. Ever thing a man does to bring attention to himself 
    60. Anything except putting women as the focus in society is 
    61. But it is not pedestalizing women as some object that you can “get” and capture- like a trophy, 
    62. Rather, it is 
    63. The feminine likes to hide in ambiguity- not commitment. That is why women say they want commitment and then when the man commits they do not respect the man surrendering to her 
    64. A lot of these quasi alpha males have a resting bitch face and are in emotions like lust and are trying to be flirty emotional and romantic with women in order to be similar to women 
    65. But that is letting the woman lead the energetic frame by trying to appeal to her 
    66. That is feminine and not masculine 
    67. Orient yourself around Woman's Flower, Vulva 
    68. Rather than being penocentric (making primary focus on man's genitals and him getting off)
    69. or instead of focusing on women's  breasts 
    70. or overempahsis on technology, cars pets and luxury experiences  
    71. your wife and her Flower should be your primary source of peace. 
    72. Vulva Flower Herself has such gravity that 
    73. life's challenges can be tolerated. 
    74. The mere existence of Her. 
    75. Intgercourse is the pursuit of pleasure , 
    76. Not the worship of Flower, via oral sex this is maculine to give and perform the act 
    77. Yes it is nice to receive but the act of giving and celebrating Clitoris and Vulva should be the main theme of the marriage. 
    78. So intercourse should not be your favorite most important act. 
    79. Guys you've been too close to women for too long and have not really realized that they are different and they have emotions and if you look at their facial expressions they are angry and range sometimes and resting b**** face and you don't want to be like that as a man you want to always be stoic or in a peaceful enjoyed State of mind
    80. The basic concept of Feminism is that women are better off as independent from the patriarchy and as an expression of that, they should work for other people (often male employers). This is instead of working for their husband or for 
    81. Many marriages do not have ideal circumstances and so the woman needs to work in the world, 
    82. But that’s not a bad thing, and it’s good women are willing and capable of playing a masculine role. 
    83. DIFFERENT CHAPTER ITEMS: 
    84. The roles of bf gf may seem closer to love but they are farther apart because they involve people getting attached when they don’t even know who they want to be as a husband and what type of woman they want to marry 
    85. So my advice is everyone needs at least 2 years of celibacy and self-discovery in order to recalibrate and prepare for marriage. 
    86. So if two people are engaging in premarital intimacy aka dating, my advice would be for them to separate and then in 2 years decide if 
    87. Guys you've been too close to women for too long and have not really realized that they are different and they have emotions and if you look at their facial expressions they are angry and range sometimes and resting b**** face and you don't want to be like that as a man you want to always be stoic or in a peaceful enjoyed State of mind
    88. If you are a woman it is ironically more courageous and masculine to honor the sacred feminine, by being “covered” by your father or finding legitimate male guardian father or brother figures to look out for you and help you find a masculine husband who will allow you to protect your feminine 
    89. 1. Do you want to be a masculine husband leader? Do you want to be a feminine wife follower supporter to a man you admire? Marriage is about both the man and women respecting the sacred feminine, which should feel natural because it is a part of nature. 
    90. 2. The feminine is specially designed to be spontaneous, entertaining, for play and for irrational tasks such as having an human grow in you and giving the child milk.
    91. The feminine is designed to seek comfort and not question things.
    92. The best way to see a woman is as an irrational soulless stray dog teenager intergalactic black hole not even worthy of her own femininity and Vulva and Vagina unless she is willing to find men to protect her, hopefully that includes her biological father and relatives, but if not, that she find legitimate benevolent patriarchal male guardianship that will protect her and help her find a husband and then still protect her and her children…
    93. And a man as the opposite and having creative soul energy that he gives to a woman- but if he gives it to any woman except his wife, then as we learned in chapter 1, he is a simping! 
    94. Women give themselves to men without commitment because women think that is a practice of their freedom 
    95. And they think that if a man does not want to be her masculine leader husband that he must be a good man because he is not trying to control her 
    96. But only a feminine man would want his woman to have to work for OTHER PEOPLE and not for him and their family 
    97. Would a woman rather be a teacher or nurse or secretary for random people or for specific people she calls family ? 

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    CHAPTER THREE: THE STUPIDITY OF DATING !!

    1.   
    2. CH 3. THE STUPIDITY OF DATING !!
    3. Dating= PMI Premarital Intimacy. Polyamory, woman giving her body without the man’s commitment, and men following a woman. A boy friend or being equals defaults to the woman leading because women have faster social skills and their emotions take over. A husband is different because it’s agreed upon that he will make the final decisions and be the leader
    4. Dating is unloving, unclean, predatory, confusing, half hearted, unscientific, inefficient marriage vetting, fake, unsustainable, ambiguous “relationships”. 
    5. Dating was designed only for married couples to present themselves to the public as a couple 
    6. Dating is unloving because it is about lust first, not loving life commitment and mutual plans. 
    7. It creates unwanted attachments comparisons and memories 
    8. they say love, all words are ambiguous like significant other, bf, fiancée 
    9. but a simple definition is that dating = premarital intimacy 
    10. PMI Premarital intimacy benefits / downsides 
    11. who would want to be a bf
    12. (predatory, refer to postcard)
    13. Dating intereferes with the process of self discvery 
    14. When femininsts say they don’t want a man’s commitment or a husband and want to give their body away for free, male predators get enthusiastic. 
    15. Why would someone want to go through heartbreak or hurting someone else 
    16. And create unwanted attachments before even committing? 
    17. A person who does that may have low self esteem – not clear on who they are and what they want in life 
    18. Or maybe you are addicted to using another person to get off and romantic limerence, but with self intimacy and treating yourself special , you will not be reliant on the external world. 
    19. It’s similar to how on social media, you should be the first person liking your posts and commenting on them and affirming yourself and be your number one fan, otherwise other people will always be controlling you. 
    20. Because if you know and love yourself, it is like being a spiritual millionaire. When a person is rich, they become selective about what they do and whom with. 
    21. And that’s what happens when you really know yourself! 
    22. Or some people unrealistically think that because they have good genetics or a fun personality that that will be sufficient to keep a person committed to you for life and that they wont want to leave 
    23. When all this dating does not even involve a legitimate contract or commitment or agreement , 
    24. So cheating is to be expected because it’s not really cheating if you do not have a life agreement 
    25. CITE STATISTICS 
    26. Stats of how low marriage countries have the most crime 
    27. Because of broken families 
    28. Stats of 
    29. be thinking of ways to minimize PMI
      You might be asking what this has to do with you and your marriage. It is about creating a culture that promotes marriage
      You want a person with no attachments or memories or comparisons to other previous intimate partners, right?

       
    30. Gender conscious environments
      No physical contact
      No eating together
      Everyone lies about it but everyone knows what a guy is doing when he is talking and interacting with a woman
      It's generally a sexual interest
      Remove dishonest words like "seeing each other" in a relationship- instead say unmarried sexual
      Sleeping
      Significant other bf gf
    31. The sexual revolution aka feminism suggested that the reason to have sex is to is because women in particular should have the right to do whatever they want and that is the best expression of freedom and that woman should be able to act like men and be masculine and seductive and pursue sex 
    32.  
       
    33. 8. I do think women should be able to choose who they marry however that just like men they should only be able to be intimate with who they marry 
    34.  
       
    35.  
       
    36. 9. The reality is when I say why sex I really also mean why intimacy because any form of intimacy will lead to attachment at least for one person and is a tease and is misleading because it suggests that you want to showcase yourself publicly or privately as a couple and sex and going on public dates and so on is a primary way that married people in the past showed that they were married people did not go on dates and present themselves to the public as being together unless they were married did you know that
    37.  
       
    38.  
       
    39. 10. There is an enormous amount of shame around sexual activity because people know it's wrong but they're unwilling to admit it or talk about it because they're ashamed so it's really bad to do something that you're not even willing to admit or openly discuss
    40.  
       
    41. 11. Historically people use sex to Bond as a couple and have masculine and feminine polarity often with the man being the dominant one sexually and the woman being the submissive receptive one
    42. I am not suggesting that it's a moral for men to want to be feminine and want their woman to be the leader or dominant in their marriage
    43.  
       
    44. 12. Or that same sex couples cannot also choose what roles to play and maybe switch those roles and so on
    45.  
       
    46. 13. What I'm suggesting is that these roles should be discussed and people should know who they are and what they want
    47.  
       
    48. 14. Another main reason people say they want sex is in order to experiment and figure out what they want but
    49.  
       
    50. 15. I don't see why people can't do that by themselves with sex and pornography and also fantasizing and imagining what type of person they are attracted to and what person might be attracted to them
    51.  
       
    52. 16. The paradox is that people say that this experimentation and freedom from shame and boundaries is empowering and sex positive
    53.  
       
    54. 17. But experimentation only makes sense if there are no downsides no serious downsides such as possible STDs unwanted memories unwanted attachments possible pregnancy distraction and interference with the process of preparing for your future spouse
    55. 19. And the other huge upside is that everyone can trust each other more because they're not trying to seduce each other's future spouses they're not trying to seduce each other's brothers and sisters and loved ones
    56.  
       
    57. 20. I have studied the group of men who seem to want multiple women and also have features that women want
      These men end up being feminine because any relationship where it's not established that the man is a clear authority like a husband leader than the default is women because women are faster in social situations and talk more and therefore they typically dominate quote unquote relationships
    58. So just as much as people could ask why do they have sex it could also be suggested why they don't have sex
    59. One reason I think it's important to not have sex is because I consider myself a global citizen of the collective consciousness and I care about those who are suffering in poor countries and other third world problems and I do not want to engage in the gratification of a a fun and pleasureful marriage
    60. Sex also implies other sexual things such as nudism pornography and strippers and internet interactions along with prostitution
    61. People have sex with people they do not care about they exchange money for sex or body for body in other words sex for sex
    62. But it is not based in love and commitment
    63. And what's disturbing is women think that being a man is empowering when being a woman means making a man chase you and earn your body
    64. Earn the privilege of your body because he is the man is able to focus and give you life commitment
    65. Feminists May want to suggest otherwise by using terms like partnership that somehow it's not men's responsibility to offer a marriage proposal but we all know that that's what men do not women
    66. Equivalently it's women's job to keep their body pure and do it for their ideal husband because women have a internal deception that if a man wants her body that also means that he would be willing to commit to her which is completely not true
    67. In fact it's the opposite men who are only wanting to date do not want to commit
    68. It is by definition predatory but women are also responsible women also choose to give their body to these predatory men and they need to be held accountable
    69.  
       
    70. How often
      And do you want to have an erection
    71. And what is your favorite sex act
    72. Also, just because people say they like each other and would have sex
    73. MEANS NOTHING
    74.  
       
    75. What is the most sexually attractive feature? You would think Would it would be larger penis larger breasts, larger Vagina Ass muscles fat reserves etc 
    76. But it’s really Skin and health number one
    77. So even if a couple has smaller less exaggerated features, if they are really healthy they will be able to have enjoyment far for a better lifespan. Think of the challenges of keeping a larger penis erection, or the sagging a woman’s breast sacks or fat will do: it will all store toxins, sag and be cancerous. 
    78. I even suggest women get a generous breast reduction at a certain point in life. And women might contest that their husband will be less appealed to her, but she should have chosen a husband who’s primary interest was her Vulva- and giving oral sex because women can have pain from intercourse at a certain point. 
    79. Thankfully, thigh fucking is very enjoyable. 
    80. Honestly, even if people can derive more pleasure out of having more pronounced sexual features, most men and woman, regardless of exact sexual compatibility, could have more than enough enjoyment out of each other. 
    81. Plus, never forget the meaning behind sexual acts- it’s to please someone that you admire on an intellectual and spiritual level- 
    82. Not to try to get as much pleasure out of someone. 
    83. And while I’m on the subject of fat holding toxins- any of those bumps and health imperfections that older people develop- all these can be delayed and perhaps avoided with proper exercise dieting and massage- making sure to knead the entire body and encourage bloodflow circulation and cleaning out the system. 
    84. Most women have rejected their femininity and do not want or care about their future husband. 
    85. Women are not trying to save their body for their husband and they do not respect him. 
    86. Women think that they need to have intimate dates and bedroom time to determine compatibility, which is giving the all men power over her because 
    87. Women think that if a man takes her body without giving commitment that he is a good man because he is not forcing her to follow him and be his wife. 
    88. Women think if a man wants intimacy with her that he likely also will want to marry her. 
    89. And men and women are not even willing to admit to themselves that they are not interested in marriage or life commitment, which is true love. The love that eagerly would want to help their life partner through life challenges. 
    90. Most people are distracted by lust and youth and will never realize this until they are older- when it is too late to create a life and fun memories with a spouse. 
    91. And men allow all this to happen.
    92. Yes, some of it has been an experiment but the single families has proven that a patriarchy is necessary
    93. And when women are given power to do whatever they want, women do not care about their femininity, their bodies, their future husbands, or not taking money from the govt, 
    94. But men thinking that this is a good idea to let women do whatever they want, is really men saying they want polyamory, where they want other men to be with their wives 
    95. This is why many men are not joyful or at peace- many men have resting b face, and are hunched over in shame 
    96. Because they are seducing each other’s wives and so no men can trust each other. 
    97. And what is interesting is that you would think that since I am trying to protect women from their own self destruction and celebrate femininity and that one woman is attractive enough and men do not need multiple 
    98. One issue is that many men seem to want multiple women so they encourage their fellow men to seduce as many women as possible 
    99. I think this is because most men collectively want to dominate women because they do not respect women. 
    100. The reason for this I think is because men play the submissive role of a child to their mother, and that this is unhealthy for an adult man to be playing that submissive role 
    101. And even if the mother is a good person, it still feels uncomfortable for the man to submit to her and it makes her angry 
    102. SUCCESS with women is SIMPING
    103. 64.  
    104. 65. I have 10 different women on rotation a guy says to me during my street debating 
    105. 66.  
    106. 67. You may not like me you may think I'm a loser but I am looking out for you and your future wife and your daughters and you can trust me around your them 
    107. 68.  Player men is acting like a quasi alpha lion – it’s mindless biological – and not sustainable for humanity, look at mouse utopia experiment. Do you really want to be unconscious like that ? 
    108. 69.  Pick up lines are stupid because they are manipulative and they suggest that a person is not even serious about marriage because if they are they ask the woman if they are looking for a husband or they are interested in marriage or if their goal is to get married and what their family thinks and if they can talk to the father 
    109. 70.  
    110. 71. Highly different conversation than you look nice today how's it going or some goofy pick up line
    111. 72.  if you are only pleasure-seeking then it is in fact an addiction 
    112. 73.  
    113. 74. Premarital intimacy is about pleasure not commitment or scientific analysis of compatibility 
    114. 75.  There is an anti-simp group that I am subscribed to and it's funny sometimes the guys say they are going to pump and dump and not get attached but that is also simply because it's giving your passion and masculine energy and money to women that you do not respect 
    115. 76.  
    116. 77. When you should be giving all of that to your wife no one else
    117. 78.  If you make fun of me or bully it is because you are not in self love and don’t have interest in marriage. 
    118. 79.  Never feel badly if a woman does not respect you or like you. She is not your wife or sister. 
    119. 80.  Being married to yourself and avoiding premarital intimacy is the first step in proving that you are ready for a spouse and have the discipline to avoid the wrong person proving that you will be able to be loyal during the marriage 
    120. 81.  
    121. 82. Do not cheat on your future spouse
    122. 83.  How to debate with promiscuous men: To say that I am an incel does not really mean anything it's more interesting to use the word envious and I am not envious of you I do not want to be you or the man that you are with or I don't want to be with you either
    123. 84.  Dear simp, 
    124. 85.  
    125. 86. So you want to give your passion energy and money and soul to a woman that you do not respect? 
    126. 87.  
    127. 88. That is simping. 
    128. 89.  
    129. 90. A self-respecting man would only give his life force to a woman who he admired and wanted to marry any woman that he is seducing for premarital intimacy and pump and dump as you would describe it is somebody that he does not respect 
    130. 91.  
    131. 92. It is absolute simping to be around anyone that you do not respect and get that close to them and by the way you could definitely get attached to them even if you do not like them
    132. 93.  so to me the definition of a simp is a man who gives his energy passion and money to a woman who is not his wife. so even the guys who are supposedly successful with women I don't consider that success because they are with women that they do not respect and they are also stealing other men's wives so it's a lose-lose because in the end even they will not get a pure wife because other men have been with their wife because of the culture that they are collectively promulgating as men... I think it's time for you to take the red pill and wake up
    133. 94.  Males simp and females reprobate and yes the terms are interchangeable 
    134. 95.  
    135. 96. Here are some conversations I had one guy said had 36 guys 
    136. 97.  
    137. 98. Another woman reprobate said that it was embarrassing that I was married to myself and had self love and was preparing for a spouse 
    138. 99.  
    139. 100. When she herself did not care about her future husband and preparing herself and being pure for him 
    140. 101.  
    141. 102. It also takes men to be pure as well
    142. 103. How can men get a pure woman if he is not pure himself? 
    143. 104.  They say that male virgins are not good, because you need to seduce women in order to prove you are a man? 
    144. 105.  The same person trying to attract a one night stand
    145. 106.  
    146. 107. Is not the same person preparing for marriage
    147. 108.  
    148. 109. And they would not even want that person
    149. 110. If you need to get confidence out of dominating and seducing lots of women that's not sustainable 
    150. 111.  
    151. 112. Because it means an external locus of control getting that confidence from when it should be internal from following your religious or personal life path
    152. 113.  
    153. 114. For women having larger chest is actually masculine to short off because an act of aggression similar to wearing makeup and high heels and make some look more domineering and is not feminine so it's important to not show off larger chest in public. 
    154. 115. For women, it is not a flex to be “uncovered” and without men in public. 
    155. 116.  Think of when you see women alone vs them with men 
    156. 117.  How can you cheat if you don’t have a vow made? It’s not breaking a contract if there is no contract 
    157. 118.  We all want world peace
    158. 119. And most men want a pure wifeAnd to protect your daughters until marriage
    159. 120.  
    160. 121. But most people disagree with the most efficient path to doing this
    161. 122.  
    162. 123. And many men give their daughters away to the school system which is full of young male predators 
    163. 124.  
    164. 125. And "teachers" who encourage premarital intimacy via different dances, coed activities and things like celebrating Valentine's Day
    165. 126.  
    166. 127. And many men think it's ideal and "successful" to seduce lots of women
    167. 128.  
    168. 129. But even if you are a more attractive or rich man, and get lots of women, 
    169. 130.  
    170. 131. Then even you can't get a pure woman because of the culture of manipulating women that you and other men have created
    171. 132. When you are in premarital intimacy it means that you are trying to get as close as physically possible to a person but at the same time you do not want to be there for them during health or wealth challenges which is how you prove love and what marriage and commitment is all about 
    172. 133. Problem is don't know if a woman is legitimately single
    173. 134.  
    174. 135. Because women are secretive and will engage in secret intimacy 
    175. 136.  
    176. 137. Is a woman preparing to be a wife
    177. 138.  
    178. 139. How long has she been single for
    179. 140. May view adult entertainment and think want a larger privates and to maximize female simulation
    180. 141.  
    181. 142. But think about it is it really that necessary to provide more and more pleasure?
    182. 143. (my response to a tiktok comment): I appreciate the essence of what you are saying Jr you are suggesting that I am not speaking clearly about my terminology so let me clarify for you what I am saying is that players who seduce many women are considered Alpha by society but I am saying that they are quasi Alpha because they are seducing women that they do not respect rather than actually building a life with a woman that they admire and respect and they're being around these women that they are seducing also requires them to not be a masculine husband leader provider or at least be preparing to do that and so therefore they end up being quasi Alpha as I describe them and feminine. to be crystal clear an Alpha men in my view is a man who prepares to be a husband for a wife he admires and does not touch her body until he gives his life commitment and talks to her father and family about it, and he also does not try to take other men's future wives or daughters so he creates a collective sense of trust that helps him to have other men protect his future daughters and family and so on
    183. 144. They're using pleasure to force each other to get attached to each other without having a clear sense of whether they want to be committed and have the same values and goals
    184. 145. Can you be honest and say that pleasure is the main thing holding you together since you do not have a formal commitment? 
    185. 146.  The advice that a promiscuous man gave me is to be normal in order to get women. But I want to be unique and attract a wife who likes me for me. I do not want to blend in be normal. That’s no soul. 
    186. 147.  Guys say all this ambiguous stuff like I really like you or like hey you want to hang out sometime or we should get some coffee All b*******
    187. 148. They should really be ready to be a husband and then get straight to the point of asking a woman what she thinks of marriage; and also ask her what she thinks of your other core values. Then ask her to look at your social media. Why go on a date and waste time and money and make the woman feel like she owes you – that’s manipulation. And you are only supposed to give your wife “free food” because that’s one way you show that she is your wife. by giving food and gifts. So it is confusing yourself and others if you are doing this with a non-wife woman. 
    188. 149. In nature you are not supposed to think about whether someone has the same values as you
    189. 150.  
    190. 151. You're supposed to impregnate as soon as possible
    191. 152. And the whole anti purity culture double standard where men can do what they want with women but women need to avoid men obviously men need to also avoid and respect women and not seek marital intimacy 
    192. 153.  
    193. 154. And also not think that premarital intimacy is a good idea because it ends up resulting in all the guys being intimate with all the women which means that it's basically polyamory and why would a man want to share his future wife with another man
    194. 155.  Women resent men
    195. 156.  


    198.  
    199. 1. Why do people engage in sexual activity, besides the obvious recreation and procreation activities 
    200. Please write down your thoughts and then consider mine 


    203. 2. I'm interested in an open conversation and debate because I think sexuality is the most important factor to consider to build a sustainable and trustworthy civilization


    206. 3. is dominance control manipulation distraction pleasure seeking not interest in loving or caring about someone avoiding 


    209. 4. Mental illness such as narcissism where they don't care about anyone except themselves 
    210. People have sex because they don't care about getting an STD or a potential unwanted pregnancy and they become addicted to sex and therefore attached to certain people that they do not like would not marry or would certainly not have children with 


    213. 5. And this is forgetting that there is value in self intimacy including use of toys and pornography viewing and that it should be celebrated and not mocked because it is the key to understanding your own sexual interests such as what body type in genitalia you are interested in and the frequency and duration that you want intimacy 


    216. 6. and if we're being honest the life span of intimacy so how healthy and virile is the person that you want to be sexual with if you're going to marry them will you be able to have a full healthy sex life with them?


    219. 7. The sexual revolution aka feminism suggested that the reason to have sex is to is because women in particular should have the right to do whatever they want and that is the best expression of freedom and that woman should be able to act like men and be masculine and seductive and pursue sex 

    221. 8. I do think women should be able to choose who they marry however that just like men they should only be able to be intimate with who they marry 


    224. 9. The reality is when I say why sex I really also mean why intimacy because any form of intimacy will lead to attachment at least for one person and is a tease and is misleading because it suggests that you want to showcase yourself publicly or privately as a couple and sex and going on public dates and so on is a primary way that married people in the past showed that they were married people did not go on dates and present themselves to the public as being together unless they were married did you know that


    227.  
    228. 10. There is an enormous amount of shame around sexual activity because people know it's wrong but they're unwilling to admit it or talk about it because they're ashamed so it's really bad to do something that you're not even willing to admit or openly discuss

    230. 11. Historically people use sex to Bond as a couple and have masculine and feminine polarity often with the man being the dominant one sexually and the woman being the submissive receptive one
    231. I am not suggesting that it's a moral for men to want to be feminine and want their woman to be the leader or dominant in their marriage

    233. 12. Or that same sex couples cannot also choose what roles to play and maybe switch those roles and so on

    235. 13. What I'm suggesting is that these roles should be discussed and people should know who they are and what they want

    237. 14. Another main reason people say they want sex is in order to experiment and figure out what they want but

    239. 15. I don't see why people can't do that by themselves with sex and pornography and also fantasizing and imagining what type of person they are attracted to and what person might be attracted to them

    241. 16. The paradox is that people say that this experimentation and freedom from shame and boundaries is empowering and sex positive

    243. 17. But experimentation only makes sense if there are no downsides no serious downsides such as possible STDs unwanted memories unwanted attachments possible pregnancy distraction and interference with the process of preparing for your future spouse

    245. 18. When in fact if you want a long healthy marriage including regular access to safe sex
    246. It requires everyone to be virgins until marriage

    248. 19. And the other huge upside is that everyone can trust each other more because they're not trying to seduce each other's future spouses they're not trying to seduce each other's brothers and sisters and loved ones

    250. 20. I have studied the group of men who seem to want multiple women and also have features that women want
      These men end up being feminine because any relationship where it's not established that the man is a clear authority like a husband leader than the default is women because women are faster in social situations and talk more and therefore they typically dominate quote unquote relationships
    251. So just as much as people could ask why do they have sex it could also be suggested why they don't have sex
    252. One reason I think it's important to not have sex is because I consider myself a global citizen of the collective consciousness and I care about those who are suffering in poor countries and other third world problems and I do not want to engage in the gratification of a a fun and pleasureful marriage
    253. Sex also implies other sexual things such as nudism pornography and strippers and internet interactions along with prostitution
    254. People have sex with people they do not care about they exchange money for sex or body for body in other words sex for sex
    255. But it is not based in love and commitment
    256. And what's disturbing is women think that being a man is empowering when being a woman means making a man chase you and earn your body
    257. Earn the privilege of your body because he is the man is able to focus and give you life commitment
    258. Feminists May want to suggest otherwise by using terms like partnership that somehow it's not men's responsibility to offer a marriage proposal but we all know that that's what men do not women
    259. Equivalently it's women's job to keep their body pure and do it for their ideal husband because women have a internal deception that if a man wants her body that also means that he would be willing to commit to her which is completely not true
    260. In fact it's the opposite men who are only wanting to date do not want to commit
    261. It is by definition predatory but women are also responsible women also choose to give their body to these predatory men and they need to be held accountable

    263.  
    264. How often
      And do you want to have an erection
    265. And what is your favorite sex act
    266. Also, just because people say they like each other and would have sex
    267. MEANS NOTHING


    CANCEL DATING E-BOOK !!

    CHAPTER FOUR: PREPARE FOR WIFE !!

    1.   
    2. CH 4. PREPARE FOR WIFE ! !


    5. If a man does not want marriage and life commitment, it means he does not know what he wants or who he is because if he did he would be confident and extremely particular about who he gave his time money and creative masculine soul passion to. 
    6. Part of this is about convincing men that marriage is a good idea. Perhaps legal marriage is not the best because it gives the woman power to use the govt to tell the man what to do and is like the woman marrying the govt 
    7. But still, the woman can take the man’s last name, have a prenuptial agreement, and they can publicly wear rings and present themselves as a married couple. 
    8. Prenuptial agreement simply means they have a private non-government agreement should anything go wrong, and the process of making this document can help make sure they are on the same page and what to do in emergencies or unusual circumstances and usually brings the couple stronger together. 
    9. self love is about knowing your path as a man. 
    10. define love: love is a commitment to live a life with someone with a mutual interest in certain values and interests. 
    11. list of musts & must nots in a spouse
    12. make a list of your values and interests
      Follow these values and make plans and goals around them
      This action will keep you in the frequency of self love.
      Love yourself before others, and the definition of love is a commitment to shared values.
      You can't really love a persons body or money. You can love their values, and that will get you through sickness and poverty. To prove your love is real. your love of both yourself and your future wife. 
    13.  
       
    14. Begin a daily email thread with your Future Wife. 
    15. - Mention what/how you are working in order to save money for you
    16. - Ask "what would she want you to do "
    17. - She is a good reason for living
    18. buy a wedding band & wear it 
    19. This shows you are committed to your values and future wife.
      And set your public identity and status to preparing for marriage
    20. Tell people you are not "single" 
    21. - "I'm committed to my Values & My Future Wife
    22. you are building up for your wife 
    23. - be careful of people who do not talk about marriage and are ambiguous about their  current marital status. 
    24. 1. (list, wedding band, self intimacy celibacy, emails, really discerning what type, give oral, new word- not wife but viespal, WILL be- not I wonder if she likes me) 
    25. If you do not want marriage it means that you do not know who you are or what you want in life. 
    26. And if you say you want to experiment and have intimacy pleasure, that is a dopamine chase, and if you have PMI it is a distraction from 
    27. Need to aggressively protect boundaries 
    28. Think of it like a woman is a galactic black hole, very attractive yet 
    29. Do not touch women 
    30. Not hugs not massages bow instead of handshake not sit down with women unless in professional setting 
    31. Not 
    32. It may be difficult to hear this but part of being ready is being your own final authority. This means that you cannot label yourself as a son grandson or nephew, because those are submissive roles in a hierarchy. 
    33. The role of father and son seem closer to love when the son is an adult but they are farther away- because they are about 
    34. If people 
    35. You cannot think very clearly until you live on your own or at least pay your own bills and 
    36. (chakras, self-intimacy
    37. The person you become for marriage and the type of mate you seek will be a very different person than one you want for a one night stand. 
    38. Mental illness such as narcissism where they don't care about anyone except themselves 
    39. People have sex because they don't care about getting an STD or a potential unwanted pregnancy and they become addicted to sex and therefore attached to certain people that they do not like would not marry or would certainly not have children with 
    40.  
       
    41.  
       
    42. 5. And this is forgetting that there is value in self intimacy including use of toys and pornography viewing and that it should be celebrated and not mocked because it is the key to understanding your own sexual interests such as what body type in genitalia you are interested in and the frequency and duration that you want intimacy 
    43. List of qualities that increase likelihood of marriage success. Each item improves odds. 
    44. 1. One person want to play supporter role, similar to why people like dogs, it’s because the dog is playing a support. 
    45. 2. Both similar health habits and lifespan because then 
    46. 3. Minimum 2 years celibacy , which helps prove you are clean physically and spiritually from previous intimacy, and it also proves you have the self control to be loyal 
    47. 4. Attend courses and read books and watch social media advice 
    48. Have people say “ I want premarital intimacy and attachment” 
    49. And if a man is not yet ready in his life for wife it means he's not ready for love and that's because he has not found himself and he does not have the clarity of knowing and loving himself and what he wants and then being selective about who he invites in to his life 
    50. 15.  
    51. 16. It's simple guys until you have a list that says what your wife will do then you are not ready for a wife or love 
    52. 17. And you don't really love yourself because you don't know what you want so it's hard to sit boundaries and you might get distracted by other women
    53. What type of people are marriage material? Are you? 
    54. 22.  What kind of leverage do you have as a woman? Using your body? Or using your wife femininity to get commitment? As a woman you do not want to use your body to convince your man to do things. As a man you don’t want to use your money to convince 
    55. 23.  Think of marriage as merging two businesses together- will the spending be 
    56. 24.  Society tells women that it is bad to be modest and pure. That if they are not willing to give PMI then they are 
    57. 25.  I worship woman's flower and femininity and it's not a casual game 
    58. 26. It's a formal and ritualistic religion where things have to change for example my wife would not be allowed to have pets and we would not worship pets, sports, new tech, other religions or anything except focusing on human beings. 
    59. “Humaning” for Humans sake. Unless we can enthusiastically get interested in each other, 
    60. you only want love when you are mature and love yourself so the question is how to get to that frame of mind and not have to wait until you're 35 Plus for that but be able to do that at a younger age. How do you teach people to love themselves at a younger age of 20-25? 
    61. 28.  Red pill guys: They always say it's a bad idea to get legally married but they don't say that they want a non-legal life commitment
    62. 29.  It's an advanced skill to prepare for and attract someone for a life commitment
    63. 30.  Red pill guys say that you need to seduce 50 women to have the confidence to get married. But that still means that you need women to get confidence which you should not. Women did not ruin the west men allowed them to. 
    64. 31.  What can't you find out by email and video calls that you need to find out in person 
    65. 32.  
    66. 33. People seduce people they don't respect 
    67. 34.  
    68. 35. That's why before intimacy you need to respect each other 
    69. 36.  
    70. 37. Because if you engage in intimacy first it might mean that you do not know and respect each other a lot
    71. 38.  If bf gf need to break up 2 years celibacy 
    72. 39.  
    73. 40. Because can't see clearly to make decision
    74. 41. Because attached to someone
    75. 42.  
    76. 43. Not ready for marriage
    77. 44. Not preparing either
    78. 45.  
    79. 46.  They say experimenting and getting better intimacy and testing out person is the reason for primaril intimacy but that might be one reason but there's so many reasons not to 
    80. 47.  
    81. 48. Are you guys embarrassed when you know that your woman you like might leave you and then go with another man it's like why would you put yourself in a vulnerable position like that to be embarrassed ? 
    82. 49.  The trade-off for intimacy pleasure is supposed to be committing to the difficult process of a stable sustainable marriage and the type of person that you need to become in order to do that 
    83. 50.  
    84. 51. When guys look at scantily clad women are they thinking that they want to marry them 
    85. 52.  
    86. 53. If a woman really values her body then is she willing to give up her body or not 
    87. 54.  
    88. 55. Do you value your body
    89. 56.  How to know that a woman won't cheat is that she is celibate until marriage interested in respecting male guardians like her father uncles brothers if they are viable male guardians 
    90. 57.  a man first needs to build up his masculine force and purpose and income and then use the logic and science of defining his role and tasks that he expects his wife to do and she agreed to them and it's these roles and the masculine and feminine polarity which keeps people together, not intimacy. that's why most people break up in 2 years. the worst part is being with someone and then realizing you haven't fully figured yourself out as a man and noticing that there is somebody else that you like but you are unavailable that is total SIMPING
    91. 58.  The critical thing is to only worship femininity and women's flower 
    92. 59.  
    93. 60. Not to worship the challenges and imperfections confusions and suffering of life for instance if you are in pain or you think things are going poorly for you financially worship woman first and don't worship anything whether it's Fame money popularity or any of the other emotions either 
    94. 61.  
    95. 62. You have to develop an appetite for being present with your wife more than anything else whether it's more than food more than sports games and all this stuff is great fun but the thing is is your religion of celebrating your wife and the women should be number one


    98. CHAPTER FIVE:  SELECT WIFE!!

    100.                 CHAPTER FIVE:  SELECT WIFE!!

    102.                               CHAPTER FIVE:  SELECT WIFE!!

    104.                                              CHAPTER FIVE:  SELECT WIFE!!

    106.                                                              CHAPTER FIVE:  SELECT WIFE!!

    108.   
    109. CH. 5 SELECT WIFE !! 
    110. ( once glance at woman and she gives attraction signals, get straight to the point- are you
    111. look at a woman 
    112. if she shows receptive body language, 
    113. approach her ask if she is looking for a husband 
    114. if she says yes, offer her your name or business card 
    115. tell her to look up your social media or website, where you describe yourself and your qualities and expectations of your future wife. 
    116. it's not that she shouldnt have preferences as well, she should, 
    117. but it's about letting her choose if she likes you and 
    118. tell her if she does to message or email you 
    119.  
       
    120. tell her to tell her parents or close loved ones that you are interested in her 
    121.  
       
    122. finallly, DO NOT "DATE" talk or see each other in person. 
    123.  
       
    124. you can email discuss everything, and on the phone or webcam. talk about personal and intimate matters. 
    125.  
       
    126. the prsotitute paradox is that people seduce people they do not care about 
    127.  
       
    128. so if you FIRST establish that you are like brother and sister, spiritually, having the same values, 
    129. this establishes trust that you will be honest about details of your life, sexual matters, financial matters... 
    130.  
       
    131. remember it's never about " I want x kind of woman " it's my wife WILL have xy&z qualities and want to follow me and my value system 
    132. Men you are going to want a woman who you can look at and say you would want to give her oral sex, you would want your child to grow in her (if applicable), you would want to be with her even if she was injured, and you think she would make a good cheerleader and she really likes you, thinks you are cool. 
    133. It is the difference between hoping a woman will like you, like how men’s internal dialogue when thinking about a woman is “I wonder if she would like me” or “I hope maybe she likes me” 
    134. Change that dialogue to “my wife will like me” “my wife will want to do these kinds of tasks that I want her to 
    135. - As a man you have to be the leader and plan what tasks she will do, whether it’s typical housewife and mother duties, 
    136. - Or secretary or specialized helper or participant in the jobs and hobbies you do 
    137. This is not about taking a woman’s willpower away from her, 
    138. But it is about both you and her agreeing before marriage that you will be the leader and she will support you
    139. The reality is that most women would be willing to do this for a man who she thought was wealthy or attractive enough but women have unrealistic standards because women are irrational and think they can do whatever they want. 
    140. What women do (aka the left femininsts) is women 
    141. Part of choosing the right person is avoiding the wrong person. 
    142. Make a list of “Cigarette Clause” items. 
    143. Similar to how if an attractive woman was a smoker it would be an instant turn off, consider other items that would be instant turn offs. 
    144. When a man is Wealthy, it is easier to be selective about what he does, and who with, and who he will marry. 
    145. This process of writing down what you do not want will help you be “ Spiritually Wealthy”  and be very particular and selective and easily avoid making the wrong choice. 
    146. It’s equally important to have some flexibility in certain areas , for example maybe a willingness to consider a broader variety of physical characteristics, in exchange for specific ideological cultural similarities. 
    147. And if you want to have children, you still will need to consider key factors such as are you financially prepared as a man, and is the woman healthy strong and have sufficiently wide hips in order to have successful childbirths… 
    148. Assess a woman : 
    149. When you observe a woman you should ask yourself if she seems physically attractive culturally attractive mentally attractive whether you want to meet with her and like her genetics for your children and whether she seems like she wants to be your number one fan and supporter helpmate cheerleader and would admire and look up to you
    150. is she visually appealing to you
    151. could you see yourself wanting to provide her oral sex? 
    152. identifying predatory people 
    153. anyone who is not your future wife is your "non-wife" so do not allow them to seduce you 
    154. Men Should recognize that a woman is like a intergalactic black hole attractive amazing but will magnetize any of your spare time and money all guys know that they will give all their spare time and money to a woman so it's best to save it up for your wife rather than waste it on someone who you are not sure about
    155. and if we're being honest the life span of intimacy so how healthy and virile is the person that you want to be sexual with if you're going to marry them will you be able to have a full healthy sex life with them?
    156. 1. Woman want a guy who has a lust for Life who has vitality and a willingness to participate in things even if he is imperfect that is more important than him having a lust for her
    157. 2. Women need to learn what choosing signals to give a man, ideally her father helps her find a guy so she does not have to put herself in vulnerable situations. 
    158. A good bachelor will promptly involve the family of the woman so it does not seem like he is trying to seduce her for PMI. 
    159. 3. The reason women don’t want to commit to a man is because women do not respect a man who commits to her- this is why women do shit tests because they are constantly needing to test the man to make sure he is viable- and if he commits, the women’s unconscious biology interprets that as he is desperate and can only attract her and no one else. 
    160. 4. The reason that men are allowing their daughters and future wives to be seduced by other men is because most men also want to seduce women 
    161. This is all dark psychology but if we bring it to a conscious level then we can overcome it. 
    162. Discuss these matters in a platonic way via phone email or videochat. It is critical not to have in person conversations because this could (if you are a normal person) result in PMI. 
    163. In fact, even sitting or talking excessively about personal matters in person with someone you are attracted to is PMI. 




    168. CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 

    170.                CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 

    172.                              CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 

    174.                                               CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 

    176.                                                               CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 

    178.                                                                             CHAPTER SIX: AN OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION !! 


    181.   
    182. CH. 6 OPTIMISTIC CONCLUSION 
    183. Both orthodox Christians and Muslims and other religious and spiritual people can agree in the sacredness in avoiding PMI and that it should be illegal. And this core commonality is a reason these religions and other schools of thought should be able to get along. 
    184. It is likely the main thing preventing world peace because all the decent people of the world cannot work together to stop the really evil or sociopathic 5% of people because no one can trust each other because many people are trying to seduce each other.
    185. If we could trust each other we could work together to make a plan to manage the 5% of neer doers. 
    186. There are many statistics that back up the fact that marriages of two virgins and with a masculine husband are successful 
    187. And the stats showing how bad children from divorces fair. 
    188. There are people who do not or cannot want children or want marriage or want to be a masculine husband and feminine wife but these are the exceptions. 
    189. These other people can help support society in their own way. 
    190. Nature does not want us to play these weird games of women needing to be men or rely on govt money. The Mouse uptopia experiment shows that when societies have an abundance of resources, due to technology, that the men no longer need to play masculine roles and the women take on masculine roles 
    191. ( the transcnedance of envy debate me, world peace concepts from the postcard)
    192. When men live for their wife and respect other men’s future wives, daughters, and avoid PMI Global collective trust can be established. 
    193. Society works 
    194. In history, in societies where men have multiple wives and there is always conflict 
    195. There are other problems in society such as men’s and women’s dark psychology, and other means of personal development which I discuss on ShieldHeart.org 
    196. If you have been looking for ways to debate with people about this subject, whatever Religious background you have, 
    197. Here are my tips for debating:

       
    198. 1. Most people who are pro PMI and want to debate do not want true love and marriage in their life. But they are not willing to admit that so try to get them to admit they do not want marriage. 
    199. 2. During debates, it must be established that dating = premarital intimacy 
    200. 3. People will bully you and call you names like prude, incel, simp, insecure, loser, 
    201. 4. But realize that these insults are meant to make you feel badly, but tell the person that that is not a convincing counterargument 
    202. 5. Establish during debates that you want a respectful debate, and whenever it gets too emotional that you will agree to stop. 
    203. 6. Back away from debates that escalate. 
    204. 7. Don’t act dominant even if you think you are right. Don’t get caught into emotions, only use calm logic. 
    205. 8. Even though we do think that avoiding PMI is good, godly, loving, avoiding sin, right, 
    206. 9. another key word to use in debates the word sustainable. avoiding PMI (DATING) is sustainable for humanities future. 
    207. 10. The fact is that no one has yet been willing to debate me online or in person during my sidewalk presentations. This is either because people agree with me or because they know they are predators and want to hide their behavior so they can continue because they are addicted to dominating and seducing women and using their bodies… 
    208. If we put Femininity and Woman’s Flower first, we will be ok as a species, but if we do not do that, then what’s the point of our life? 
    209. You might think that you are older or already married and so this information is irrelevant to you, 
    210. But think about it, if you think reincarnation is real then you can help share this message so that your next incarnation will benefit! 
    211. What currently happens in society is parents who are not legitimate guardians allow their children to do whatever they want and be promiscuous and 
    212. It’s not enough for you and your loved ones to embody the philosophy of protecting the Sacred Feminine. 
    213. It is necessary to engage with the world and promote this culture so that the future of humanity will be stable and sustainable. Otherwise, when you and your family are gone, maybe humanity will forget this philosophy and if they do, they can should and likely will destroy themselves via replicating the Mouse Utopia Experiment… 
    214. initiate debates with fellow man or if you are a woman, with your fellow woman. 
    215. women- would you like a husband who you would want to look up to and follow? 
    216. women- would you prefer to be a feminine woman 
    217. men would you prefer to be a masculine leader man? 
    218. Men would you prefer to have a virgin woman 
    219. Or have other men had intimacy with her. 
    220. If a woman says I am insecure and have small-D energy, here is my response:
      “ Even if I had no D, I would still be confident because my confidence is derived from celebrating Femininity, Vulva and Women. And if you are willing and your husband allows for it, please consider once you are married to be an exotic dancer. 
    221. And the only reason you are resorting to person insults like body shaming about a man’s private parts are because you have no real argument, so you try to use simple insults. 
    222. The truth is it’s a mans world, and you cant handle the truth! 
    223. And, it’s ok if you want to be a masculine boss bitch I think women have a right to do that, 
    224. But most women want to be wives and mothers if possible 
    225. AND all these people insult me online or in person but do not dare debate me because they either agree with most of my rhetoric or they are predator men or women and are addicted to promiscuity and game playing and are too angry or ashamed to reveal what they are doing. 
    226. Survey for men: (use during debates and public advocacy ) 
    227. 1. Would you want other men to be intimate with your future wife?
    228. 2. Would you want a man to ask you for permission to marry your daughter AND marry her before any intimacy? 
    229. 3. Would you prefer your daughter listened to you and did not give her body to men without their commitment of marriage? 
    230. 4. Do you think women are good and should be allowed to decide and choose to do whatever they want or Do you think women have a dark side? 
    231. 5. As a man I receive a lot of mockery from other men, and even if they do not take me seriously, at least they know that I will respect their daughters and future wives, and that I am promoting a culture that will help them get a pure untouched woman for them to marry. 
    232. 6. During debates with quasi alpha male, ask him if he cares about other men?