

A good man does not use Dating.
The root cause of most Human Problems is Dating.
it leads to failed marriages, families and dissolved social trust.
By about 1920, dating had replaced more formal Courtship.
Dating = Premarital Intimacy
that creates Premature attachment
which makes it harder to think logically and
scientifically to determine spousal compatibility
Courtship involved friends families and religious or social experts.
this leads to intentional and successful Marriages.
the men most " Successful " with Dating
are those who "don't get attached or acquire feelings "
they use their body and money to seduce women.
this is not good nor sustainable.
so what is a good man?
(all my work may be cited and reused- it is not plagiarism to use it.)









Presented by: Mr. John Anolani Remis JohnARemis@Gmail.com
250th: Freedom & Femininity is NOT FREE
Feminism preached freedom for women to do whatever they want.
However, life in the physical realm is not free. We are intriscally tied to each other and serve different purposes. Men masculine testosterone focus build protect. Women feminine estrogen nurture be entertaining and social and playful. There are exceptions which I respect, but most people are heteronormative and would like to play these roles. It’s biology.
Part of various religions is celebrating and protecting Femininity.
Are we really a free society if women cannot enjoy being in their feminine?
Most men would like to be a provider in fact men fall in love and get attached via vasopressin to women by doing things for them- as it gives men a sense of purpose.
Pro-Femininity people include:
- Rachel Wilson
- Dr. Debra soh
- Dr Dani Sulikowski
- Savanna stone
- Helen Andrews
- Candace Owens
- No Fugazee podcast
The figures who built the feminist movement — Victoria Woodhull, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Helena Blavatsky, Annie Besant, Alice Bailey, Margaret Sanger, Gloria Steinem — were not the courageous everywoman activists people describe them as.
They were spirit mediums, Theosophists, occult priestesses, eugenicists, and intelligence assets whose activism was financed by some of the wealthiest families on earth, including the Vanderbilts, the Rockefellers, and the Rothschilds.
feminism’s hidden roots in occultism, Marxism, and state manipulation were not about empowering women but about restructuring society to serve ideological and economic agendas, often at the expense of family stability
- Taking away men’s purpose
- And women’s enjoyment of being able to be feminine.
Feminism is anti femininity and anti purity and anti fatherhood
if you don’t fight for your freedom, whether physically or ideologically, you do not deserve freedom
If you want a big govt to take care of all the problems, then the govt will be a costly inefficient corrupt bureaucracy
The bigger issue of freedom is what do you do with it
We have iron age ideology and new age technology that’s a dangerous combination
10 ways to be aware of simping and stop.
1. Take myself: I am a strict vegan and if I pursued a non-vegan woman because I was attracted to her body that would be simping
2. A man who gives his commitment, soul energy & money without the woman giving her body in non-legal marriage, he is a simp.
3. Unless you both agree on the roles of the masculine leader husband and the feminine supporter wife, then the man is simping
4. Only fans contributors and sugardaddies are good examples of simps. But even promiscuous men are simps.
5. I EXPLAIN ALL OF THIS IN THE SIMPING VIDEO ! please review it.
6. This will be disturbing to hear but please consider not labeling any woman your higher authority. Roles and titles and names such as “mother, aunt, grandmother” are not good. As an adult man, you need to be free, not a “son husband” and need to be fully focused on your future wife’s reproductive system, and Flower, and it feels awkward to label someone a mother and at the same time be having woman’s body as your god. It is in fact a higher expression of Love for these people if you label them as a spiritual sister- if you have the same values as someone then you should
7. I find that the men who are most submissive to their biological mothers are also the most womanizing and predatory towards women. And I do not think it is a coincidence. I theorize that men do not like labeling a woman their authority and so they unconsciously submit to one and then dominate a woman they find attractive. It is a dominance submission game.
8. I think men should not label anyone authority neither mother father uncle aunt anyone, because for a man to take responsibility for his life he must feel like his life is his, that he owns it. When a man owns something, he takes better care of it vs if he rents it.
9. So simping in a way equals being submissive which you should not do to anyone in your personal life. You may need to respect chain of command or customers in business but in personal, your life is yours.
10. Men fall in love via vasopressin which is created when you do tasks for a woman and it gives you a sense of purpose and meaning.
11. When you are not preparing to be a husband you will think differently , and be interested in a different kind of woman- not a wife
So prepare to be a husband, by saving extra time and money for your future wife and when you are ready, do not try to seduce or “get” a woman, but Vette her instead
12. In schools and socialization men can become emasculated by being around women who dominate culture. Men must be carefully not to get too feminized and metro by focusing on non-provide protect activities even if the society seems safe. Freedom must be protected or it will be lost.
13. The only peace and sense of freedom is by protecting and celebrating and giving your soul to your wife’s body, and she in turn reciprocating. This can be your compass, rather than being so focused on the newest gadgets, showing off to people who are not your wife, pets, other luxuries. Simple and low cost time with your wife giving her massages and being near her.
14. One main issue is many of the men with alpha qualities and money are not interested in having a pure woman… it’s strange but it is simping unless you can avoid it. As a man if someone says you are insecure for preferring pure women, you can say that insecurity does play a role- that you would like a woman who does not compare your body mind or resources to other men.
15. Men have a certain creative soul energy and focus and intention that women do not- and it has a lot to do with the influence of testosterone
10 ways to be aware of hoeing and stop
Be aware of if you are trying to live your life without a husband you are devaluing your body and you are dishonoring your feminine because to be in your feminine, you will need a masculine husband provider protector.
1. Don't post attractive pictures of yourself on Instagram or adult content websites until you are married
2. Consider having a short buzz haircut and avoid dressing to attract men's attention until you are married
3. Work to guard your purity and be celibate because we both know that a man that you admire and would want to marry you would want you to be celibate
4. Be careful of other women because they will try to take you down anyone from your best friend's sisters mothers they will all encourage you to be promiscuous and be overweight if you want to and they will all not be trying to help you get a husband because in one way or another they are competing with you
5. As a woman you might be told that you should do whatever you want as long as it feels good. This leads to women being intimate with a more attractive and or richer man, and being attached and then comparing these men to a man who would actually commit to her.
This is an addiction or attachment and is not useful because comparison is the thief of joy.
Women also release bonding hormones during intimacy. Why would you want to bond with a man who does not want to marry you?
6. Be aware that you might be tempted to trade your body for different gifts and lifestyle but that shopaholism another addiction
7. Do not accept anything free from men and do not go into their house or car or place they invite you or sit down with them or do anything at all even do laundry or leave a bag at their house because they will use this to manipulate you.
8. Recognize men’s dark psychology in that men who want to seduce you or get your body likely are not marriage oriented. And most men unless they are conscious only want intimacy. Essentially, men who want intimacy often would not be willing to commit to you for life.
9. woman who is not courageous enough to value her body and make a man chase her
10. Woman who does not have the courage to honor her femininity and seek a masculine man who will help her protect that.
11. Be careful of other women because they will try to take you down anyone from your best friend's sisters mothers they will all encourage you to be promiscuous and be overweight if you want to and they will all not be trying to help you get a husband because in one way or another they are competing with you
12. Addicted to intimacy and romance games and shopaholic lifestyle addictions and social status or career status games you trade your body for, rather than building a generationally sustainable family by contributing feminine polarity and dynamics
13. Avoid talking with men. A courteous wave is enough if they say hi to you. You do not owe them anything verbally. If the man persists, do not retaliate. Walk or run away. Men are way stronger then women even if they are small.
If you are not interested in legal or non-legal marriage or life commitment,
It means you are likely a pleasure seeker and do not make love your top priority.


2. If you are a simp in any way, you would want to correct that behavior, right?
3. A simp is the male version of a female H.O.E.
4. A woman who gives her body without the man’s life commitment is a H.O.E.
5. A man who gives his commitment, soul energy & money without the woman giving her body in non-legal marriage, he is a simp.
6. Unless you both agree on the roles of the masculine leader husband and the feminine supporter wife, then the man is simping
7. Only fans contributors and sugardaddies are good examples of simps. But even promiscuous men are simps.
8. Feminists will say that I am an insecure small-d energy incel and envious of predatory men who take women’s bodies without giving their commitment. I would never want to be those men. That’s low vibration unloving unclean energy. I may not have larger privates but neither do many men. And it’s not respectable to as a woman say or act as a woman that you only want big-d stimulation, because that means that pleasure and addiction is more important than love.
9. Women should stay pure which will help them get the most attractive husband they can find. Some women think that if they give a man their body that he might marry them. many men would take her body but only certain men would want to marry her. That is H.O.E. behavior.
10. Feminists will say that women should be able to do whatever they want including promiscuity. However, a woman cannot enjoy being feminine without having masculine husband and a benevolent patriarchy.
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12. If it is not agreed that the man will be the husband leader, then he is likely a simp.
13. This is because Women’s emotions dominate and lead by default in ALL other roles such as boyfriend, significant other or partner – since women’s biology is more about caretaking and emotions rather than logic and problem solving.
14. And even if your wife is logical and competent, it is better if she work for you, the family business, homemaking and enjoying being in her feminine if you guys can afford it.
15. Promiscuous “ player successful” men are also simps because even if they are getting women’s bodies, without having to commit,
16. They are not being stoic masculine leader husbands to a woman they respect and want.
17. And they are using their creative soul energy to manipulate women and inevitably are spending their spare money and time on women that they do not even respect. They don’t want to commit because they are not truly attracted to or respect the women enough to want to be their husband.
18. And if the women are being masculine provider sugar mommies then that’s even more embarrassing because when the man is the main object of affection and receiver of provision then he is being feminine.
19. Even though the couple should be equally attracted to each other, it is important for the man to put more emphasis on pleasing the woman and complimenting her rather than expecting that from her. The best example is wanting to give her oral intimacy first before getting it from her. It’s about not using other forms of intimacy to get pleasure from the woman’s body. Stoic and masculine.
20. Don’t make it mainly about pleasure seeking- using the woman’s body for pleasure. That is how men get P.U.S.S.Y whipped, because they make getting pleasure the main motivator in life, when the main motivator should be protecting femininity and celebrating Woman’s External Flower.
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23. Bottom line is if you are not excited about being a provider masculine husband so your woman can enjoy being in her feminine then you are a simp.
24. Women should only have to work and deal with money in poverty or emergency situations or because they want to.
25. And together, we can create a society that protects and honors women’s femininity.
26. Some men want to be promiscuous and dominate women in the bedroom and have them submit to them in the bedroom but that is putting pleasure first, not religion or purpose or goals. When you put pleasure first, you are controlled by women.
27. That is why promiscuous womanizer men act flirty and romantic. These men are feminine because they put pleasure seeking first, not purpose and masculinity.
28. And the fact that some women get tricked by these men is only futher proof that women are irrational and need a benevolent patriarchy.
29. And people may call me a simp but at least they know I can be trusted to protect and respect their future wives daughters and sisters.
30. Women do not do well alone- they do not pick viable husbands –
31. If a guy is not actively talking about marriage and wanting to talk with a woman’s father
32. Guys will say that I am a simp because I want to be loyal to one woman- but women are amazing and one woman should be attractive enough.
33. And even “successfully promiscuous” men are certainly sharing women with other men- sounds queer.
34. Even though I am a kind nice man, I also have strict boundaries and standards for myself my wife and children.
35. Women will say they like big-d and extra stimulation and that unless you have big-d you are not masculine. But if a woman is acting like this, you wouldn’t want her in the first place, right? I myself wouldn’t want larger privates because it is a physiological distraction and makes it harder to focus on a woman’s flower. That is why I would not want a woman with a large chest except for when she is lactating for a child.
36. Please consider a nicki minaj type of character- a woman who is very masculine and aggressive and does not want to be a Wife.
37. Feminists say you can do anything. But that defies the natural biology of most men and women who would prefer to be masculine and feminine respectively. It ruins the family unit. And people can’t do drugs or whatever crimes they want, and promiscuity is also a unhealthy unhygienic drug with personal and social consequences- unless you have no empathy and are dark triad.
38. Some women cater to these bad men because they are addicted to them or out of fear. But this is all because dating and premarital intimacy are encouraged.
39. But the only men who would want dating and premarital intimacy are either simps who would pay for dates for a woman who is not their wife, or predatory men who seek pleasure and dominance. The dominance is wanting soul energy from women.
40. That is why another form of simping is the govt or men giving women emotional and financial support and then the women give themselves to these bad men.
41. Giving govt assistance to women or even unequal incentives in divorce is also bad. So don’t get legally married because the govt will control you and women use power for bad.
42. This all might sound like I want a weak submissive wife. no. I want a strong smart competent wife who can earn money if needed but would rather live off my salary even if that means no luxuries like vacations, because it’s all about protecting femininity. And in this case that means her being able to be in her feminine because she is provided for.
43. To not be a simp you must engage in self intimacy because it provides post nut mental clarity so you can be extremely selective about who you choose as a wife.
44. Even in marriage you must use self intimacy as a tool to not be controlled by your wife and get P.U.S.S.Y. whipped if she tries to leverage intimacy for you following her. Which even good women will do this as a S.H.I.T. test
45. Simping is things like sitting and eating with women who are not your spiritual sisters. Like talking with women about non-professional issues except for brief courtesies.
46. Before you approach a woman to express interest in marriage, you must first determine if you have shared platonic non-romantic values, and that you could be spiritual siblings.
47. For example, for me, it is veganism, no pets, and certain health and cultural habits.
48. Something fascinating happens once you recognize this final point:
49. That once you only associate on a personal level with the opposite gender that are your spiritual sisters,
50. Men only try to seduce and manipulate women they do not respect. Similar to how men pay escorts and the escort also seduces the man.
51. This is the same as people dating. Seducing each other with their bodies and money but not willing to commit to each other for life.
52. You need to assume you will not be thinking clearly if you have someone in mind that you might want to marry. That is why you should clearly state that you are looking for a wife and is she looking for a husband and ask to meet her family and friends so they can help determine if you are compatible.
53. Also, you can determine bedroom compatibility via sharing emails and intimate videos. Also share other personal issues. All possible without any dates.
54. Even verbal intimacy is simping.
They will shoot right through a parked car a high caliber machine gun

