STEP 2:
STEP 2
buy a wedding band & wear it
This shows you are committed to your values and future wife.
And set your public identity and status to preparing for marriage
Tell people you are not "single"
- "I'm committed to my Values & My Future Wife
you are building up for your wife
- be careful of people who do not talk about marriage and are ambiguous about their current marital status.
STEP 3:
STEP 3: avoiding PMI
The original not watered down Orthodox religion emphasize no PMI
be thinking of ways to minimize PMI
You might be asking what this has to do with you and your marriage. It is about creating a culture that promotes marriage
You want a person with no attachments or memories or comparisons to other previous intimate partners, right?
Gender conscious environments
No physical contact
No eating together
Everyone lies about it but everyone knows what a guy is doing when he is talking and interacting with a woman
It's generally a sexual interest
Remove dishonest words like "seeing each other" in a relationship- instead say unmarried sexual
Sleeping
Significant other bf gf
STEP 4:
discuss what is ideal
find ways to promote virginity pure culture
when people try to seduce each others future spouses
and other peoples loved ones.
This is the reason no trust in society
Focus on ideals
STEP 5:
Orient yourself around Woman's Flower, Vulva
Rather than being penocentric (making primary focus on man's genitals and him getting off)
or instead of focusing on women's breasts
or overempahsis on technology, cars pets and luxury experiences
your wife and her Flower should be your primary source of peace.
Vulva Flower Herself has such gravity that
life's challenges can be tolerated.
The mere existence of Her.
STEP 6:
want everyone to have a loving spouse
you might think it's good to applaud promiscous men that that is "success" with women but it is in fact being polyamorous and neglecting your future spouse
may think that it's more strong to seek PMI
But actually more strong to commit to someone
STEP 7:
initiate debates with fellow man or if you are a woman, with your fellow woman.
women- would you like a husband who you would want to look up to and follow?
women- would you prefer to be a feminine woman
men would you prefer to be a masculine leader man?
Men would you prefer to have a virgin woman
Or have other men had intimacy with her.
STEP 8:
identifying predatory people
anyone who is not your future wife is your "non-wife" so do not allow them to seduce you
STEP 9:
Assess a woman :
is she visually appealing to you
could you see yourself wanting to provide her oral sex?
STEP 10:
look at a woman
if she shows receptive body language,
approach her ask if she is looking for a husband
if she says yes, offer her your name or business card
tell her to look up your social media or website, where you describe yourself and your qualities and expectations of your future wife.
it's not that she shouldnt have preferences as well, she should,
but it's about letting her choose if she likes you and
tell her if she does to message or email you
tell her to tell her parents or close loved ones that you are interested in her
finallly, DO NOT "DATE" talk or see each other in person.
you can email discuss everything, and on the phone or webcam. talk about personal and intimate matters.
the prsotitute paradox is that people seduce people they do not care about
so if you FIRST establish that you are like brother and sister, spiritually, having the same values,
this establishes trust that you will be honest about details of your life, sexual matters, financial matters...
remember it's never about " I want x kind of woman " it's my wife WILL have xy&z qualities and want to follow me and my value system
WHY SEX ?
Why do people have sex or not have sex ?
1. Why do people engage in sexual activity, besides the obvious recreation and procreation activities
Please write down your thoughts and then consider mine
2. I'm interested in an open conversation and debate because I think sexuality is the most important factor to consider to build a sustainable and trustworthy civilization
3. is dominance control manipulation distraction pleasure seeking not interest in loving or caring about someone avoiding
4. Mental illness such as narcissism where they don't care about anyone except themselves
People have sex because they don't care about getting an STD or a potential unwanted pregnancy and they become addicted to sex and therefore attached to certain people that they do not like would not marry or would certainly not have children with
5. And this is forgetting that there is value in self intimacy including use of toys and pornography viewing and that it should be celebrated and not mocked because it is the key to understanding your own sexual interests such as what body type in genitalia you are interested in and the frequency and duration that you want intimacy
6. and if we're being honest the life span of intimacy so how healthy and virile is the person that you want to be sexual with if you're going to marry them will you be able to have a full healthy sex life with them?
7. The sexual revolution aka feminism suggested that the reason to have sex is to is because women in particular should have the right to do whatever they want and that is the best expression of freedom and that woman should be able to act like men and be masculine and seductive and pursue sex
8. I do think women should be able to choose who they marry however that just like men they should only be able to be intimate with who they marry
9. The reality is when I say why sex I really also mean why intimacy because any form of intimacy will lead to attachment at least for one person and is a tease and is misleading because it suggests that you want to showcase yourself publicly or privately as a couple and sex and going on public dates and so on is a primary way that married people in the past showed that they were married people did not go on dates and present themselves to the public as being together unless they were married did you know that
10. There is an enormous amount of shame around sexual activity because people know it's wrong but they're unwilling to admit it or talk about it because they're ashamed so it's really bad to do something that you're not even willing to admit or openly discuss
11. Historically people use sex to Bond as a couple and have masculine and feminine polarity often with the man being the dominant one sexually and the woman being the submissive receptive one
I am not suggesting that it's a moral for men to want to be feminine and want their woman to be the leader or dominant in their marriage
12. Or that same sex couples cannot also choose what roles to play and maybe switch those roles and so on
What I'm suggesting is that these roles should be discussed and people should know who they are and what they want
Another main reason people say they want sex is in order to experiment and figure out what they want but
I don't see why people can't do that by themselves with sex and pornography and also fantasizing and imagining what type of person they are attracted to and what person might be attracted to them
The paradox is that people say that this experimentation and freedom from shame and boundaries is empowering and sex positive
But experimentation only makes sense if there are no downsides no serious downsides such as possible STDs unwanted memories unwanted attachments possible pregnancy distraction and interference with the process of preparing for your future spouse
When in fact if you want a long healthy marriage including regular access to safe sex
It requires everyone to be virgins until marriage
And the other huge upside is that everyone can trust each other more because they're not trying to seduce each other's future spouses they're not trying to seduce each other's brothers and sisters and loved ones
I have studied the group of men who seem to want multiple women and also have features that women want
These men end up being feminine because any relationship where it's not established that the man is a clear authority like a husband leader than the default is women because women are faster in social situations and talk more and therefore they typically dominate quote unquote relationships
So just as much as people could ask why do they have sex it could also be suggested why they don't have sex
One reason I think it's important to not have sex is because I consider myself a global citizen of the collective consciousness and I care about those who are suffering in poor countries and other third world problems and I do not want to engage in the gratification of a a fun and pleasureful marriage
Sex also implies other sexual things such as nudism pornography and strippers and internet interactions along with prostitution
People have sex with people they do not care about they exchange money for sex or body for body in other words sex for sex
But it is not based in love and commitment
And what's disturbing is women think that being a man is empowering when being a woman means making a man chase you and earn your body
Earn the privilege of your body because he is the man is able to focus and give you life commitment
Feminists May want to suggest otherwise by using terms like partnership that somehow it's not men's responsibility to offer a marriage proposal but we all know that that's what men do not women
Equivalently it's women's job to keep their body pure and do it for their ideal husband because women have a internal deception that if a man wants her body that also means that he would be willing to commit to her which is completely not true
In fact it's the opposite men who are only wanting to date do not want to commit
It is by definition predatory but women are also responsible women also choose to give their body to these predatory men and they need to be held accountable
How often
And do you want to have an erection
And what is your favorite sex act
Also, just because people say they like each other and would have sex
MEANS NOTHING
What is sexually attractive
Skin and health number one
Would like it would be larger penis vulva breasts ass
