STEP 2:
STEP 2
buy a wedding band
This shows you are committed to your values and future wife.
And set your public identity and status to preparing for marriage
Tell people you are not "single"
- "I'm committed to my Values & My Future Wife
you are building up for your wife
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STEP 3:
STEP 3: avoiding PMI
The original not watered down Orthodox religion emphasize no PMI
be thinking of ways to minimize PMI
You might be asking what this has to do with you and your marriage. It is about creating a culture that promotes marriage
You want a person with no attachments or memories or comparisons to other previous intimate partners, right?
Gender conscious environments
No physical contact
No eating together
Everyone lies about it but everyone knows what a guy is doing when he is talking and interacting with a woman
It's generally a sexual interest
Remove dishonest words like "seeing each other" in a relationship- instead say unmarried sexual
Sleeping
Significant other bf gf
STEP 4:
discuss what is ideal
find ways to promote virginity pure culture
This is the reason no trust in society
Focus on ideals
STEP 5:
Orient yourself around Woman's Flower, Vulva
Rather than being penocentric (making primary focus on man's genitals and him getting off)
or instead of focusing on women's breasts
or overempahsis on technology, cars pets and luxury experiences
your wife and her Flower should be your primary source of peace.
Vulva Flower Herself has such gravity that
life's challenges can be tolerated.
The mere existence of Her.
STEP 6:
want everyone to have a loving spouse
you might think it's good to applaud promiscous men that that is "success" with women but it is in fact being polyamorous and neglecting your future spouse
may think that it's more strong to seek PMI
But actually more strong to commit to someone
STEP 7:
initiate debates with fellow man or if you are a woman, with your fellow woman.
women- would you like a husband who you would want to look up to and follow?
women- would you prefer to be a feminine woman
men would you prefer to be a masculine leader man?
Men would you prefer to have a virgin woman
Or have other men had intimacy with her.
STEP 8:
identifying predatory people
anyone who is not your future wife is your "non-wife" so do not allow them to seduce you
STEP 9:
Assess a woman :
is she visually appealing to you
could you see yourself wanting to provide her oral sex?
STEP 10:
look at a woman
if she shows receptive body language,
approach her ask if she is looking for a husband
if she says yes, offer her your name or business card
tell her to look up your social media or website, where you describe yourself and your qualities and expectations of your future wife.
it's not that she shouldnt have preferences as well, she should,
but it's about letting her choose if she likes you and
tell her if she does to message or email you
tell her to tell her parents or close loved ones that you are interested in her
finallly, DO NOT "DATE" talk or see each other in person.
you can email discuss everything, and on the phone or webcam. talk about personal and intimate matters.
the prsotitute paradox is that people seduce people they do not care about
so if you FIRST establish that you are like brother and sister, spiritually, having the same values,
this establishes trust that you will be honest about details of your life, sexual matters, financial matters...
remember it's never about " I want x kind of woman " it's my wife WILL have xy&z qualities and want to follow me and my value system